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Worry Exposure

Deliberately approach a recurring feared scenario instead of repeatedly avoiding, suppressing, or neutralizing it.

Worry exposure is a structured way to approach a recurring feared scenario for a limited period of time. Instead of immediately suppressing the worry, seeking reassurance, checking, or distracting yourself, you describe the scenario and practise allowing its uncertainty to be present.

The aim is not to prove that the feared event cannot happen or to force anxiety to disappear. It is to practise responding differently when worry appears.

Before beginning

This exercise can temporarily increase anxiety. Choose a topic that feels uncomfortable but manageable rather than your most overwhelming concern.

The exercise may not be suitable during an acute crisis or when you do not feel able to remain safely present. Professional guidance may be appropriate when symptoms are severe or when you are uncertain whether this exercise is suitable for you.

The approach

Write the feared situation in the first person and present tense. Include what happens, what you notice, and what you fear the outcome would mean. Read the scenario slowly for a defined period, noticing urges to neutralize or avoid it without requiring those urges to disappear.

Afterwards, briefly note what you observed. There is no guaranteed outcome and no particular reaction you need to produce.

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    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

    Patterns and practices derived from cognitive and behavioral approaches.

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